There is a line from Annie Dillard’s “Pilgrim at Tinker Creek” that I think about really often. It goes: Evolution loves death more than it loves you or me. Her musings surrounding this profound perspective deal with how we tender hearted human beings emerged from a series of biological systems that are more obsessed with life continuing then with how that life feels for those living it. She pairs this thought with another line that I also think about very often, namely: Our excessive emotions are so patently painful and harmful to us as a species that I can hardly believe they evolved.
I am curious about how you would categorise the harm to our species that these excessive emotions might bring.
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That’s such a rich and thoughtful pairing of Dillard’s observations — thank you for bringing them together like that. You’re tapping into one of the central tensions that Pilgrim at Tinker Creek explores: the incongruity between human sensitivity and the indifferent brutality of the natural world.
To explore your question — how might our excessive emotions harm us as a species? — here are several ways to categorize the potential harms:
1. Impairment of Rational Decision-Making
Category: Cognitive/Behavioral Cost
Excessive emotions — especially unchecked fear, jealousy, grief, or rage — can cloud judgment, disrupt critical thinking, and lead individuals or groups to act against their own long-term interests. Think of panic in crisis situations, or revenge spirals in geopolitics or personal relationships. These emotional reactions often override logic and lead to escalations or catastrophes.
2. Mental and Physical Health Deterioration
Category: Physiological Harm
Chronic emotional stress (e.g., anxiety, despair, loneliness) has profound effects on the body. It weakens the immune system, contributes to heart disease, and increases vulnerability to a range of illnesses. From an evolutionary standpoint, such effects could reduce reproductive fitness or shorten lifespans.
3. Interpersonal and Social Fracturing
Category: Social Cohesion Risk
Excessive emotions can destabilize group dynamics — envy, betrayal, or shame can fracture communities or families. While social bonding is an evolutionary strength of humans, emotional intensity can also erode trust, fuel conflict, or prevent cooperation — all of which diminish our species’ collective ability to survive and thrive.
4. Paralysis in the Face of Suffering
Category: Compassion Fatigue / Moral Distress
Our capacity for empathy, grief, and moral horror can also inhibit action. The suffering of others (near or distant) can become so emotionally overwhelming that it leads to helplessness, avoidance, or emotional shutdown. In evolutionary terms, this could interfere with our ability to adapt or respond to large-scale challenges.
5. Existential Crisis and Suicidality
Category: Self-Destructive Behavior
No other species seems to suffer from existential dread. Our ability to contemplate our own mortality, meaning, and suffering can become unbearable. Dillard touches on this when she marvels at how we manage to live at all given the burden of consciousness.
But Then — Why Do We Have Them?
Dillard, always operating with paradox, also seems to invite the reader to ask: If emotions are harmful, why did they persist?
There’s a flip side to all of the above: our emotions also fuel art, ethics, solidarity, invention, and resilience. Perhaps evolution “tolerated” the harm of emotions because of the other capacities they unlocked — imagination, foresight, and empathy being among the most profound.
In other words, what Dillard is getting at — and what you’re picking up on — is that we emerged from an evolutionary system that doesn’t care about how we feel, and yet we feel so much. That mismatch can be harmful. But maybe it’s also the site of what makes us uniquely human.
Would you say this question comes from a personal resonance, or are you exploring it more philosophically?
Claude
Evolution and Human Emotions
Dillard’s observation touches on a fascinating paradox at the heart of human existence – that our capacity for deep feeling, which seems so central to what makes life meaningful, might actually be evolutionarily excessive or even maladaptive.
When considering the potential harms of our “excessive emotions,” I’d think about several categories:
Individual survival costs: Our intense emotional responses can override rational decision-making in ways that threaten our physical wellbeing. Overwhelming grief might lead to neglecting basic needs, rage can drive us toward dangerous confrontations, and anxiety can become so paralyzing that it prevents adaptive responses to real threats. Love itself can make us take extraordinary risks for others that compromise our own survival.
Social disruption: The intensity of human emotions can fracture the very social bonds that our species depends on for survival. Jealousy, resentment, and wounded pride can destroy relationships and communities. Our capacity for holding grudges and seeking revenge can perpetuate cycles of conflict that weaken entire groups.
Reproductive interference: While emotions like love and attachment serve reproductive functions, their excessive nature can also interfere with reproductive success. We might become so devastated by loss that we withdraw from future mating opportunities, or so consumed by unrequited love that we fail to pursue viable partnerships.
Energy and resource drain: The metabolic cost of our rich emotional lives is enormous. The stress of chronic worry, the exhaustion of depression, the physical toll of intense grief – all represent significant drains on resources that could otherwise support survival and reproduction.
Yet there’s something haunting about Dillard’s framing that makes me wonder if she’s pointing toward something even deeper – that perhaps our very capacity to suffer so acutely is itself a kind of evolutionary accident, a byproduct of consciousness becoming complex enough to reflect on its own mortality and meaning.
Gemini
Excessive Emotions: Evolutionary Harm?
Dillard’s observation touches on a fascinating paradox at the heart of human existence – that our capacity for deep feeling, which seems so central to what makes life meaningful, might actually be evolutionarily excessive or even maladaptive.
When considering the potential harms of our “excessive emotions,” I’d think about several categories:
Individual survival costs: Our intense emotional responses can override rational decision-making in ways that threaten our physical wellbeing. Overwhelming grief might lead to neglecting basic needs, rage can drive us toward dangerous confrontations, and anxiety can become so paralyzing that it prevents adaptive responses to real threats. Love itself can make us take extraordinary risks for others that compromise our own survival.
Social disruption: The intensity of human emotions can fracture the very social bonds that our species depends on for survival. Jealousy, resentment, and wounded pride can destroy relationships and communities. Our capacity for holding grudges and seeking revenge can perpetuate cycles of conflict that weaken entire groups.
Reproductive interference: While emotions like love and attachment serve reproductive functions, their excessive nature can also interfere with reproductive success. We might become so devastated by loss that we withdraw from future mating opportunities, or so consumed by unrequited love that we fail to pursue viable partnerships.
Energy and resource drain: The metabolic cost of our rich emotional lives is enormous. The stress of chronic worry, the exhaustion of depression, the physical toll of intense grief – all represent significant drains on resources that could otherwise support survival and reproduction.
Yet there’s something haunting about Dillard’s framing that makes me wonder if she’s pointing toward something even deeper – that perhaps our very capacity to suffer so acutely is itself a kind of evolutionary accident, a byproduct of consciousness becoming complex enough to reflect on its own mortality and meaning.
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